Through Expression, We Meet Ourselves

“Don't let your best work die within you.”

In the rush of our daily lives, we often hold back our true thoughts, ideas, and dreams, letting them simmer beneath the surface. It's through expressing these parts of ourselves - honestly and openly - that we begin to truly meet ourselves. This concept is central to Todd Henry's powerful message in his book Die Empty, which urges us not to let our best work die within us.

Todd's call to action is inspired by a profound question: "What is the most valuable land in the world?" The answer, attributed to Myles Munroe, is surprisingly sobering: the graveyard. It is there that we find the remnants of unfulfilled dreams, unwritten novels, unbuilt businesses, and unreconciled relationships - essentially, the sum of unrealized potential.

Reflecting on this, Todd resolved to ensure that his best work wouldn't go to the grave with him. He committed to putting everything he had into the world while he still could. This idea resonates deeply because it challenges us to think about the projects, conversations, or dreams we've been putting off. We might tell ourselves that we’ll start tomorrow, but today is the day to take action, however small.

Expressing yourself honestly is a way to connect with your true self. Whether through writing, speaking, or acting on your ideas, this expression can reveal parts of you that you might not have fully understood before. It’s about letting go of the fear of judgment and embracing the courage to share your unique voice with the world. Here are some ideas to get you started:

Ask Important Questions: What have you been putting off that you need to start today? Is there a project that you’ve been meaning to begin but keep delaying? Is there a conversation that needs to happen? A dream that has been lingering in your mind?

Identify Your Dream: Pinpoint the project or idea that you are passionate about. What do you truly want to accomplish?

Take Small Steps: Break down your goal into manageable steps. Even the smallest action can create momentum and propel you forward.

Overcome Fear: Fear of failure or judgment often holds us back. Recognize these fears and confront them. Remember, it’s better to fail while trying than to never try at all.

Stay Committed: Consistency is key. Commit to working on your goal regularly, even if it's just for a few minutes each day.

Consider Steve Jobs, who faced significant opposition and skepticism when he proposed the iPhone. Many doubted the feasibility of combining a phone, an iPod, and an internet communicator into one device. However, Jobs was committed to his vision and took small, consistent steps to bring the iPhone to life. His willingness to express his ideas, despite the fear of failure and judgment, led to one of the most revolutionary products in technology.

Don’t let your most precious ideas and dreams stay buried within you. Start bringing them to life, one small action at a time. By doing so, you not only contribute to the world but also embark on a journey of self-discovery. In the end, expressing yourself fully and pursuing your dreams leads to a life well-lived, free of regret. It's about meeting yourself where you are and embracing the journey toward who you want to become. Don’t let your best work die within you. Start today and see where your authentic self-expression takes you.